Wednesday 11 October 2017

WHY I NO LONGER HATE AUTUMN


As the autumn air creeps upon us and  we start preparing for the festivities that are soon approaching us. There is always a voice in my head that likes to associate this season with the end of the year and previously that thought used to make me sad. It used to reinstate the fact that summer had well and truly ended, my period of carefree living was over. I was forced to focus on the events that had occurred during the year, whether I had reached my goals and was often a season that gave me a reality check which frankly, I was never after.   

However as the years have gone by, I now see Autumn as a time to reflect, a time of change and a season of letting go.  It instead encourages me to check-in on myself, evaluate and analyse my emotions in order to move forward with myself and finish strong. With less than 100 days left of the year, we need to reflect on ourselves and refuse  to let the feeling of being comfortable in ways we may have slipped become a habit.  



What I believe Autumn represents:

Reflection 
A time of reflection on your year so far, a time for you to be grateful of your achievements. To be grateful for where you currently are and to appreciate how far you've come from the beginning of the year to now. Achieving gratitude allows you to shift your focus , and whatever we focus on we move towards. 

Change 
Autumn is a season where we see evidence of real change in the environment. The leaves are falling and the climate is adjusting. It is a physical manifestation of things changing and also represents a chance of letting go. As the leaves change colour and eventually strip themselves bare, the trees remind of us of how beautiful it is to let go. Allow this autumn to give you a chance to release the dead things in your life that are no longer fruitful. 

"Some people believe that holding on and hanging in there are signs of great strength. However there are times when to know when it takes much more strength to let go and know when to do it." 

Harvest 
To me Autumn is also a time of harvest, its a time of grinding now when it matters. A time of planting seeds in order to be fruitful at the end of the year or to make the start of your year great. It can also be a time to invest in something new for yourself, let it motivate you to experiment with new activities or ideas in your life.


The shorter days and darker nights can create a dull atmosphere but I challenge everyone reading to continue to be intentional with themselves especially when it gets harder this season.

"Life starts all over again when it gets crisp in the fall."  - F. Scott Fitzgerald



Kuro x


Tuesday 3 October 2017

Who Defines Beauty - GUEST POST by Tobi Sobowale

Who Defines Beauty?


To put it very simply, you do. Not anyone else. After all, they do say, beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. And as cliche as it may sound, it is definitely correct. Who is anyone to tell you that you are not beautiful, who are they? They are definitely not God. So why do we care so much about the opinion of others?

The other day my friend complimented a girl saying “she does not need makeup”. He then went on to make a statement that "well ... no girl needs make up”. I didn't say anything but in my head I thought, he only made the second statement because he realised how off the first statement sounded. I understand that he was just complimenting the girl, suggesting she is a natural beauty. However, why couldn't he just have just said that? It really does annoy me that people have this idea that some girls need to wear makeup. A lot of us girls will say, ‘I don't care what people think,' ‘who cares about their opinion,' ‘I know I’m beautiful’. But let’s be honest, many of us may feel like we have to wear makeup to feel beautiful and conceal ourselves due to not recognising our own natural beauty.

Ive had acne for the past 10 years and now at the age of 21, my skin has started to clear up. However over the past 5 years, I used makeup to conceal this and it became a mask for me. I didn't feel comfortable without it and wouldn't leave my house without it. I’m at a stage now where this is no longer the case, thank God. But at the time when my friend made his comment, my confidence without the use of make up was something I was struggling with. So maybe you understand why I was annoyed by the comment this guy had made. My dream for us all is that we will get to a stage where, if anyone tells you that you don't need make up, tell them ‘thanks but no girl needs make up. We cant let other people dictate their opinions or give their words power over us. It is imperative that we uplift ourselves.

You are beautiful. I am beautiful. And we need to truly start believing this. Whether we have acne, hyper pigmentation, whatever it may be. As women we need to support each other and we have to truly uplift each other so others will truly understand that their opinions do not matter. The only opinion that truly matters is Gods. 

I am wonderfully and fearfully madePsalm 139:14.




Tobi Sobowale
Founder of the YAB Campaign


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